There’s etiquette to just about anything and everything these days:
- how to say hello,
- when to use the right fork at dinner,
- and in some countries, which hand you should be wiping your butt with. 🙂
Don’t laugh! I’m being serious. In India, as well as other Asian countries, you’re supposed to wipe your butt, clean your feet, and do anything else unsanitary with your left hand.
Take that, righties!
Oh wait, that’s me…
Well, there’s also a guideline for Airbnb etiquette. If you’re wondering what they are, then you’re in the right place.
Read on for the 411 on Airbnb etiquette!
Airbnb etiquette tip#1: Communicate, communicate, communicate
If I say something three times, that must mean it’s really important, right? RIGHT!
Communication is the most important aspect in Airbnb etiquette. It helps with quite a few situations.
Before booking the Airbnb – If you’ve got your eye on an Airbnb but have a few hesitancies about it, then reach out to the owner and talk it out. If they’re a good host, they’ll usually get back to you as soon as they can and answer whatever questions you have that aren’t on the listing.
After booking / before arrival – This is the most crucial time for communication between the host and you. During this time, your host and you will talk out when you will be arriving and when you need to check out.
The arrival part is quite important because unlike a hotel, there won’t be a concierge to check you in, and you may not have cell service to get in touch with the host at arrival. So talking out when and where to meet before you get there will make the start of your trip much smoother.
Pro Tip: Write their address and number down on paper just in case your phone stops working, and you get lost on the way to their place.
View from our Airbnb of the Mediterranean Sea above Vernazza, Cinque Terre, Italy
At arrival – When you arrive, the host will show you the house rules and around the apartment. Ask all the questions you want and need to make yourself at home!
During your stay – There’s really not much need for communication here, but sometimes hosts like to know how you’re doing and check in. When or if you have time, just reply with a simple, “Great. Thanks.” or if there’s an issue, make sure to let them know.
They would much rather make your stay pleasant and fix the problem ASAP instead of getting a sorry review later on that they can’t do anything about.
At checkout – Let your host know when you leave just like you would at a hotel. A simple text or message on the app is good enough!
Airbnb etiquette doesn’t seem so bad so far, right?
Airbnb etiquette tip#2: Read the House Manual
If there’s a house manual, cuddle up on the couch with that baby… if there’s a couch.
First of all, there’ll probably be the wifi network and password on it, and if you’re like me, you’ll be fiending for the internet to find the best restaurant near you to cure your jetlag.
Second, it’ll outline some simple house rules letting you know what’s ok and not ok to do. The rules are generally fairly simple, and at most, involve you putting your dishes in the dishwasher when you leave and taking out the garbage.
Also, if you’re looking to invite some newly found local friends over for a party but not sure if it’s ok, this is where you usually find out if they have neighbors who care about you blasting loud music, and basically, having fun after a certain time.
If they do have a quiet time, please respect it! If the neighbors start meddling into the host’s Airbnb affairs, then their awesome rental might not be available to anyone else in the future. #dontf*ckthisup
Lastly, sometimes hosts throw in their manual local insights on what to do and where to eat in the area.
Yaaaas to the sweet bonus you get from booking with Airbnb– all the local goodies!
Airbnb etiquette tip#3: Respect the Airbnb
Have your fair share of fun, but definitely respect the place.
Most of the time, you’re either vacationing in someone’s rental apartment or straight up in someone’s home that they left just for the weekend and rented to you ’cause they needed some extra cash.
Either way, respect the place! This is someone’s livelihood we’re talking about.
- Keep it clean.
- Put things back where they belong.
- Turn off the lights when you leave the apartment.
- Turn down the heat or the AC up a degree or two (if you want to be extra green and conscious of the owner’s bills).
In terms of food and drink in the Airbnb’s cabinets and refrigerator, here’s my general rule of thumb.
If it’s purely a rental home, which you can tell by the lack of personal items in their place, then really anything goes.
Usually previous Airbnb’ers leave small things behind like pasta, rice, olive oil, and garlic so as long as it’s not rotting, feel free to dive in.
Also, generous hosts will let you know if they’ve left food for you. At one Airbnb, I got champagne and mozzarella balls while at another, I got eggs, fresh butter, muffins, bread, crackers, cookies, and SO many other things. #jackpot #nomnomnom
If it’s actually someone’s home, which you can tell about how much stuff there is everywhere (photos of their significant other, all their clothes in the closet, etc.), then unless they told you to indulge in their food and drink, try limiting yourself to the spices in their cabinet, and go grocery shopping for yourself. Checking out local markets and ingredients is the best!
If you HAVE to drink their alcohol or eat their food, make sure it’s not the good wine, and replace what you can.
Airbnb etiquette tip#4: Write A Review
After your stay, put the cherry on top of your Airbnb etiquette by writing a review. This will largely help the host by drawing more people in to stay there or letting them know what you liked or disliked so they can keep on improving the Airbnb experience.
After staying at 15+ Airbnbs, these are the four main points I have on Airbnb etiquette. Thanks for reading through them all!
Do you have any Airbnb etiquette points to add? Share by commenting below!
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‘Till next time! xo.